At this moment in time, the purpose of my mediumship is to facilitate a reunion between your loved one in spirit and you, the recipient. In a public demonstration everyone in the congregation/audience should feel like they have met your loved one. I am always aware of the healing energy through my mediumship and often the messages are emotional rather than entertaining. I love the collective hush and anticipation when I know everyone is listening and witnessing the power of spirit together.
When I start a communication in public, I offer information from the spirit person first before I am either directed straight to the recipient, the area of the room or occasionally ‘throw it out’ to see who can understand it. The best method to establish the recipient will always be debated. I continue to develop all ways of working.
I check that you understand who I am communicating with and that every bit of evidence I offer makes sense, as the message unfolds. If I am answered ‘no’ to something I’ve said I will ask your loved one in spirit what I should have said instead. Does this sometimes affect the flow and slow the communication down? Yes. Does this sometimes give the appearance that I’m having to work hard? Probably. Am I tempted to adopt a different style of presentation to stop this happening? No.
I am on a journey of continuous development because I have set my standards high and don’t always achieve my expectations. However, I am constantly reminded that my expectations and the audience’s entertainment are not as important as the correct recipient receiving an evidential communication that comforts, uplifts and maybe even awakens their own spirit to the truths of eternal life.
